Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family. Show all posts

Tuesday, September 22, 2015

Evolution XVI

How to create success?



Success is created in the mind first!


Any great achievement, any amazing accomplishment, any epic anything is created twice, first it's created in the mind and only secondly it is created on the physical plane.   

You need to be a co-creator of your success.

Visualize the event you wanna manifest so by doing this you can activate the success mechanism you have in your brain, so when you have this goal, this dream, you have this achievement you wanna accomplish, your mind, your subconscious mind will cause to you to take actions until you achieve that, it is what it does, it doesn't argue, it doesn't rationalize it, it just does what it is programmed to do.

Challenge yourself!

You have to fight this natural look for comfort. No one had a breakthrough in their comfort zones nobody, if you wanna do something amazing you got to be uncomfortable, challenge yourself.

Be willing to look bad because you can't get better and look good at the same time. No matter what you do if it's playing the piano or playing soccer you can't look good and get better at the same time.

Feed your mind every day, feed your mind with positive things, that cause you to think in positive ways because when you do that you will attract success because you just have a more positive mindset.

Plan your weeks, plan every week. Have and use paper-planner. 

Associate with positive people, you don't have a choice who is in your family, you don't get a choice almost the time with who you work with, but you have a choice on how you spend most of your time, you get a choice to be mindful of the people you gonna associate with. Who with you have dinner and who you invite to your home.  

You must face the reality that not all the people with you spend time with is good to you and you have to minimize the time with people who physiologically drain you or disrespect you.
Some of the people are intentional and some of the people completely unintentional.
You gotta to limit access to you. There are some people that you have to completely eliminate from your life, they are not just negative, they are harmful and dangerous because they can cause you to lose self-esteem, cause you don't believe in you, to not go after the greatness that is inherited in you.

Your character will determine so much of your success because everything isn't a random events and happen to you, you don't have a role and or a destiny and karma.

You are a co-creator in your life of your success.

You build success by the choices that you make each and every day and the choices that you make will determine how your success evolves!


So like always just Do life and have a great week.



- JM   

Saturday, August 29, 2015

Evolution XIII

Boundaries VS Limitations



Boundaries = Good / Limitations = Bad
















Boundaries are guidelines that we might set for ourself or for other people to deal with us or we allow to deal with us.

We all need to set boundaries.

If we wanna be free we need to set boundaries, where we work, in our relations, with our family, we must set the status for how we gonna be treated. 

About limitations we can define that we have 2 kind of limitations: there are the limits that others want to set on us and the limitations that we set on ourselves.

Be aware that limitations are things that hold us back.

The most person who can hold you back which is of course yourself.

But the more you work on you, the more you work on your self-esteem, the more you work in your self-development, the more you work in your self-discipline, the more limitations you gonna eliminate. Because 99% of everything is mental and the person who believes who can do something, has such a dramatic exponential higher reality of doing that. 

You need to do the work on you, doing your small victories, develop the confidence and for that you have several sources to help you with that like watching Scopes on Periscope ( for that just download the Periscope app into your smartphone and follow me @jbemartins ), subscribe the Youtube channel, read these posts on this blog and doing this things every week not only builds your confidence, build your success, build your skills, so you can always expanding so what you perceive, so you can always developing the window that you see the world with, the same way is the window you see your abilities through.

Limits are real until they are not.

Limitations are real until the moment they are not.

It is a limitation until it isn't.


Have a great week-end and lets go out and do something amazing.




Your friend, JM.