Evolution XIV

Learn how to be a kid again!

When you were born you didn't have afraid of speaking in front of groups

   Think when you were a child, without afraid of speaking in public, without need to fit in where you were, you have the amazing sense of adventure, passion and excitement, you were really happy. That condition is your authentic self. But then what happens is along the way we take in beliefs and values and behaviors that we get from the people around us, obvious we are influenced by our environment and in particularly the parents, the coaches, the people who are around us the most, particularly the formative years.

We take in those beliefs and in those values and for most people in the world we take in those behaviors and create a gap, a space between your authentic self and your personality.

You have to know what are your values, what are the principles you wanna live by, not necessary what other people taught you.

You need to know the stuff that matters to you, it's gotta to be your goals not someone else.

Most people today they are doing something they really don't want to do, they are a dentist because 3 generations of their family were a dentist, there are a lawyer because their mother was a lawyer or their father was a lawyer.

And some people are doing this, running like in auto-pilot, in someone else goals.

We usually say money and materials things don't buy happiness, they allow you to self-expression on things that brings you happiness.

Happiness comes from achievements as we keep creating achievements we want to accomplish and we start to achieve those things that is what brings us happiness.

You can seat all day, have no money worries, nothing to do, watch all day movies in TV all day long, all your needs are met for you if you have a wealthy mother or father that gives every month millions to you use in your necessities and you wouldn't be happy because happiness comes from doing things, from achieving things, and when you switch from success for significant is not having another achievement it is having a achievement that means something.

Another situation that is common is people usually are worried with what, about other people think about them and doesn't matter what other people think, it is your life, do what you like, live like you want. 

Be comfortable in your skin because you can't love anyone until you love yourself first.

You need to love yourself before you even like anyone else!

Have a great week and lets go doing something amazing.

- JM. 

Evolution XII

Question your paradigms!

There are 2 parts in our mind: there is one part that gathers information and there is another part that controls our behavior, and it's our behavior that controls our results!

We have paradigms that are programmed genetically and environmentally. We must question if they are serving us! Why?

It's interesting how paradigms are formed and how we can change them. The paradigms controls our perception, how we utilize our time and controls the amount of money we earn.

For example of one paradigm that is universally accepted is that it's spiritual to be poor or noble to be poor or if we want to be spiritual we must be poor or if we want to be noble we must be poor.

The truth is that poverty almost the time causes people to lie, to cheat, to steal and even to kill.

If you born in poverty that's nothing wrong, but staying in poverty is an insult to the one that create you, because you are not utilizing the incredible potential that you have. When you are poor you are missing the mark for your creator.

When you are living in poverty you are missing the mark that your creator has to you or you are not accepting the love that the universe has to you because I really believe you were born to be happy, healthy and free.

Your creator gives you happiness, health and wealth and if you are not expressing that, you are turning away from that source, it's almost like being a sinner. We need now to define sin because you probably know that the Bible was written in Aramaic and in this original language the definition of sin means to miss the mark. So when you are sinning you are missing the mark that your creator has for you. And again we must differentiate be poor from born in poverty there are 2 things completely different like we already define above. 

But if for example my family or my close friends they really believe that being poor is noble and spiritual, what can I do?

The best way to deal with that and is not so easy to do, but it is limit your time with them, set boundaries for them, let them know you love them and care about them, you want to help them to reach success but you can't drag anyone to the finish line. They actually if you spend too much time with them they will do the opposite with you they will try to drag you to their side.

You need to let them know you don't allow anymore them to drag you again back to the other side. 

Probably you really need to say directly: "I'm sorry I love you, I care about you, I wish you the best but I cannot spend time with you any longer because I do not want to be infected with your attitude, your mindset, the way you are thinking."

In other hand expand the association with people that are in the same path like you for improving their lives!

 How? 

By reading books, listening to tapes, attending workshops, webinars, scopes on Periscope about personal development. 

Like always peace, love, faith, keep dreaming, stay alive, success, Just Do Life and have an amazing and great week.

Your friend and partner, JM. 

Evolution XI

Give life to your idea of being totally free!

You're not poor because you don't have money, you're poor if you don't have goals and a dream!

My definition of being free or have freedom isn't just going for the money and having material things but I'm not just focus even in being in the middle of the nature, and meditation, etc.

Is the combination of the two, being free is what brings joy and happiness to your life.

Also is what brings value to your life, the all picture of freedom is the money and material things, the health and wellness, powerful relationships, being happy, is the full-pack/include all of those things.

Why you should and how you can create goals?

It's very important goal setting, because when you have a goal there is a center in your brain working to achieve that goal, it's scientifically proven, that shows the veracity of this.

A lot of research was made in the 60s about how the human brain works and what they saw when you actually have a goal there is a center in your brain that works toward achieving that.

So make sure you have dreams, you have goals, this vision of you want to do, have or become. 

Children are very good in this when they are young, but adults are very good in killing this and we need to reverse this process. We got to nurture the dreams, because you have the right to decide how you want to live, to be free and choose your destiny.

But you can think this: how can I achieve my goals or my dream?

   

You don’t have to know how to do it. You just have to know two things—where you’re going and that you will get there.

You can also do two things: create an image of you living already your perfect life in your mind and the dialogue to support that image.

You’ve got to see yourself in the clothes you want to wear, having those cars, having that house, etc. Picture those things about you want to do, have or become. Build a clear image of you looking awesome and feeling fantastic.

You also must develop a new way of speaking to yourself and others. Otherwise, you will sabotage yourself with negative self-image dialogue.

Focus on what you want.

Write a description of your new life on a card— the look you want to be, the cars and house you want to have, the people you want in your life, and how you’ll look and feel. 

Read your card and affirmations several times a day. See yourself as already being looking, feeling and behaving in that new life. Get emotionally involved with these ideas.

Do these things and you will transform your life. Not by forcing yourself to do things you don’t want to do, but by building a new model in your marvelous mind.

This might seem overly simplistic, but the body is the instrument of the mind. When we build an image in our mind, our body HAS to express it. The transformation happens by law.

But for that could happen you need to be focused on that all days!

Focus each day on what you want to accomplish for the day, put the blinders on, if you find yourself distracted here or there in something isn't moving you close to you goals, stop it and focus specifically on the task that you need to accomplish for that day. Write down 1, 2, or 3 things each day that you want to get accomplish, and absolutely focus in order to be able make it happen.  

Give life to your idea of being that free person. I promise it will take on a power of its own.

So like always just Do life and have an amazing week.

- JM