Evolution XV

Never be afraid of rejection!

Be different and be amazing

Nowadays most people think they have fear of failure, but they don't really have fear of failure, fear of rejection, it's fear of success.

This simple is another case of limiting beliefs that cause you self-sabotage your own success that cause to not achieve everything that you are meant to do, to step into your greatness.

Where this comes from? Fear of success? It comes for worthiness issues, not believing you're worthy, being afraid you don't deserve it.

Being afraid you are not worthy of the good that is meant to be yours.

Where that comes from? 

First of all you are your worst critic, your hardest critic.

You need to understand that you don't get the freedom you deserve, you get the freedom you believe you deserve.

Second you are afraid that you don't fit in, your friends don't like you anymore, that your family don't love you anymore, that you don't belong to the people you hang around anymore.

But why the effort to fit in?

Why we need to be different these days, if you want to be wealthy, healthy, if you wanna be happy or if you wanna be successful?

We have more than 7 billion people on the planet now.

How many of those 7 billion do you think are healthy?

Probably more than 5 billion are not healthy, they carry around too much weight, they do not do exercise, they do not eat well, do not have energy, most have degenerative diseases, so just about 2 billion people probably are healthy.

How many you think are happy?

Again a few on the planet are happy because if you check for example the percentage of people nowadays consume excessive alcohol, drug abuse ( people have these behaviors to forget the problems that they are currently facing, instead of solving them, works like an anesthesia but only the problem is when the effect finish, nothing changes, the reality comes again and probably addiction is developed to the substances, money problems can start to arise to sustain the addictions, etc ) we conclude by checking the numbers most of the people are not happy at all.

How many of the 7 billion people do you think are wealthy? Really with financial freedom, with all senses of freedom? 

How many do you think are rich, they really got the money thing out of the way?

Less than 5%.

How many of those 7 billion people are healthy, happy and free?

And now how low you think is that percentage?

Probably less then 1%.

So why would you wanna be like that the majority of people today?  

Why you wanna fit in with the crowd? Why you wanna "be normal"? 

I think now you don't!

You wanna to be different. You wanna be amazing.

So how to be healthy, happy and free?

a) Live healthy, such a simple thing, such a profound thing. But exercise every day, eat for energy. Breathe fresh air. Get some sunlight. Get some sleep, get your rest. Do this and you be very, very different just if you live healthy.

b) Question the premisse. Do your homework about good nutrition, because don't trust in the media these days, the publicity probably say you that you need to drink beer everyday or wine everyday, or probably you will find articles saying you need a cheeseburger everyday or another example you will find publicity saying that vapor cigarettes are healthy for you and they are not dangerous. These ads are there since media went out. So question the premisse. Use your common sense, be a critical thinker.

c) Grow your mind. Take classes, take continued classes on university, go to seminars and workshops of personal-development, read challenging books, read challenging blog posts, find things that cause your mind to grow.

d) Grow your consciousness. Set aside some time each day to nourish your self-development. Treat your body and after your mind ( doesn't need to be by this order ) feed your mind, your consciousness.

e) Create your own financial security. Only foolish people would wait and expect the government to take care of their retirement. If you are counting on social security to create your financial security that is insanity. Social security in most of the countries nowadays is the worst pyramid scheme in the world.

Greece today is probably the worst pyramid scheme in the world, Puerto Rico might be the second worst pyramid scheme in the world, USA social security program probably is the third worst pyramid scheme in the world ( it's actually a money game ) and another nations all around the world.

So don't expect the government to take care of you. Don't spend more than you earn.  What ever you earn. Doesn't matter what you earn, don't spend more than you earn, you have to spend less than you earn and you need to take some part of what you earn ( that earnings ) and you got to put it to work. You need to grow your wealth. Put your money to work. You need to be able to go to bed and when you wake up you are wealthier than when you go to sleep. Like that you accumulate more wealth.

But for this could happen probably you got to change some of the people you hang out with. 

You got to look about the environment you surround yourself with.

Who are the 5 people you are spending the time with more time with?

And if they say it doesn't work you are dummy and you don't gonna do it, you just simple like that don't buy the story, you can't let somebody else sell you a story about you. They are selling you a story based on fear. They fear full people that is what that people are afraid. So remember never be afraid of rejection!

Have a great weekend and just be amazing.

- JM.

Evolution X

YOU WERE MEANT TO LIVE A LIFE OF FREEDOM!

YOUR LIFE IS CREATED BY WHAT YOU THINK ABOUT ALL DAY!

You see all over the world there is people doing things they don't want to do and is giving them results they don't want to get and they do anyway. 

I want that your head represents your mind. First of all no one ever seen the mind. Mind is activity is not a thing. Your brain is not your mind. Brain is a electronic switching station that alters the vibration you're in and the vibration indicates what you attract. 

If you divide the top half of your head in the conscious mind and the bottom half represents the subconscious mind you will understand that the conscious mind is where school focus on, that is where we gather all the information loaded with books and the subconscious mind is where are the paradigms.

Your paradigms controls your vibration, controls what you attract and also controls what you do. It literally controls your behavior. If you look outside your results, your results are nothing but manifestation of your paradigms. And when you go and change your paradigms because it is something you must do if you want to change your results.  

But probably you are wondering what are paradigms?

Well paradigms are a multitude of habits. Are ideas that are fixed in your subconscious mind and all brought together are called paradigms. So paradigms are like a sub-electronic mechanism control system in your subconscious mind.   

What is this process that we see the world through? We see through a window and if it is open then we have freedom. 

Think about when you were a baby. You didn't have fear of speaking in front of people and didn't have afraid of failure. You try walk, you try touch in fire and get burned.

You grew up and then in the 30s you learn to be realistic. To set goals so you can achieve and don't fail or be disappointed. Now your window get closed. If you read TRANS4MATION it's up to you!

well your window expand and get bigger, starts to open again longer as you get older. Why? Because helps to you press the mute on the negative if you stay in this path of expanding your window that you use to you see the world.

Why this is so important?

Because your life is created by what you think about all day. For example if you think positive and success you create opportunities.

To you change anything outside you must first have to change the inside.

If you sow a thought you create a action and if you sow a action you create a habit and if you sow a habit you create character and if sow character you create your destiny.

Your mindsets are not created in a day but in a month cycle.

You create a better life by creating a better self-image.

If you REALLY believe you can achieve something and you act on it, YOU WILL.

Have a great week and just Do life!

- JM with friendship.

Evolution IV

Do you attend failure's workshop?

Failure should also do workshops!

       Usually people always study and follow up success, what people do to become successful.

Nowadays it's not spend  too much time looking what failures do.

So often people go to success workshops and they see successful people do workshops, and only a small percentage of people in attendance become successful from the workshop. Why this phenomenon happens? Because the big percentage in attendance never do what the speakers tell them, just putting simple like that.
Many in attendance listen and embrace it, put in their mental diary and accept it, just a few do it but everybody is available to do it.


In the sequence of the theme for today what about failures workshops? What if you have the opportunity to listen from somebody who never accomplish nothing in their life, told you what their habits were, all the opportunities they have and told you on a regular basis what they didn't do, wouldn't be of a great value that information?

Identifying the things that failures do is just as important at some period of time to listen to success.
Of course I believe you need more success principles than study and follow up of failures do. My definition of a failure is a permanent situation ( i.e. when you quit ), for example when you say: "That situation didn't work for me!", you fail to do what is required to succeed in this example, but if you don't quit, while your still in, having pulse, while your still have life in you and working to do well, then you're not a failure.  

So why people quit?
There are many reasons, lets explore some:

a) The necessity you have for the approval of other people.

The opinion of other people of you is more important than yours. Sometimes what happens to failures is like they don't feel so good about themselves that when they give themself advice the thought process they have is that they never trust it even if they have all the evidence, all the experience and all the information they still don't believe in themselves so they allow other people make the decisions for them.

b) Entertainment.

If you read the previous post I made on this blog I share there the difference between entertain yourself instead educate yourself, what I mean by that is most of us right now we're in entertaining ourselves, we will seat down and watch the idiot box ( TV ) 5 hours per day or more, every single day  but won't take 30 minutes to read a book or listen one audio program that is going to improve us and take us to where it is we gonna to go.

The reason why I'm writing to you in this type of writing is I want you to understand that your eyes, ears and mouth all that is being programmed as your navigation GPS device to where it is your going to go in life, what you intake, the information that you intake, those are the only places you can go, so if you intake negative tv news and gossip programs, when you intake this for so many hours a day, it becomes a part of who you are.

Now you might be thinking: "Well I agree with that you just written above but you forget I can control it!",  YOU CAN'T because that is your unconscious mind it works taking over by input, the more input you get the more operate.

You've got to learn how to disassociate with negative programming, how to improve yourself and educate yourself pop in an audio program, sit down and read a book, meditate and whatever it is you're doing you've got to feed yourself, feed your brain. Our brain is like a plant, if you don't feed your plants, your plants will die. Most people put more time in the feeding their plants then they do in the feeding of their future.



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Next post I gonna share with you the theme will be How to feed well your body and mind? ( I gonna share my personal secret sauce that allowed me in just 1 year changing my weight from 91kg / 201 lb to 67kg / 148 lb with no sacrifice, with happiness, a lot of joy and improved my health. )

So until we interact again as always, peace, love, faith, keep dreaming, stay alive, success and just Do Life! 

JM with friendship.

Evolution III

Do you belong to the 95% of our society or the 5%?

95% of our society is addicted to failure

      Winning is a habit but so is losing. Losing becomes habitual and people can be addicted to failure. The question of today is am I addicted to failure or to winning?

You need to learn to gather enough information and make a decision then stick with then.

Successful people make a decision and hold onto it, and make it right.

Unsuccessful people go back and forwards on that decision, and are very slow to make decisions. One of the sub themes I want to discuss with you is about the entertainment.


Entertain yourself instead of educate yourself?

There is a study in the USA that shows the hours of TV usually people see in a regular basis "Average American watches 5 hours of  TV per day, report shows ." and what's interesting about that study is as someone becomes older more hours of tv see  "Time spent watching live TV increases steadily as we get older, according to a new report." 

Why this happens?

I call that the state of anesthesia to not feel pain ( or in some cases receiving pleasure ) but is needed now to do an distinction in pleasure VS happiness.

Pleasure is temporary and happiness can be eternal. An example of pleasure being temporary is: I watch TV X hours today, because I want to please myself. I want that short term pleasure.

Happiness: I decide not see more tv today, "The Voice" is coming on but I decide now to read something positive, to improve myself or I watch the rest of the soccer game or the money drop and I go work on myself, maybe study just one chapter.

Successful people understand the priority of time.

Unsuccessful people don't see the value of time, don't invest, contrariwise spend their time entertaining themselves VS educate themselves.


You must be addicted to improvement, 95% of the people in the world spend the majority of their time entertaining themselves and the other 5% invest more time to educate themselves.


Please ask yourself now: what was my last book I read? The audio program that I listened?

This now means your life should be spending all your free time you have on personal development? No of course not, but if you want your current status improve, you should do something for change it and to things to improve you need to improve!

In the course of time, I made an incredible discovery in all my personal failures & successes and this  was what I find out: there was always one same suspect at the same crime zone and guess who was?  Was me.

Like I found this you too have to take personal responsibility for where you are in order to get where you want to go!
Last thought for today is unsuccessful people use circumstances that are not favorable as a reason to permanently stop going in the direction of their dreams.

On the other hand successful people are always looking for the solution for the problems that they face. Successful people ask: How can I solve this? ( and or ) What can I do to solve this?


Henry Ford once said wisely: "Failure is simply an opportunity to begin again, this time more intelligently." and couldn't be better said...


As always peace, love, faith, keep dreaming, stay alive, success and just Do Life!



Your friend, JM.