Evolution XIII

Boundaries VS Limitations

Boundaries = Good / Limitations = Bad

Boundaries are guidelines that we might set for ourself or for other people to deal with us or we allow to deal with us.

We all need to set boundaries.

If we wanna be free we need to set boundaries, where we work, in our relations, with our family, we must set the status for how we gonna be treated. 

About limitations we can define that we have 2 kind of limitations: there are the limits that others want to set on us and the limitations that we set on ourselves.

Be aware that limitations are things that hold us back.

The most person who can hold you back which is of course yourself.

But the more you work on you, the more you work on your self-esteem, the more you work in your self-development, the more you work in your self-discipline, the more limitations you gonna eliminate. Because 99% of everything is mental and the person who believes who can do something, has such a dramatic exponential higher reality of doing that. 

You need to do the work on you, doing your small victories, develop the confidence and for that you have several sources to help you with that like watching Scopes on Periscope ( for that just download the Periscope app into your smartphone and follow me @jbemartins ), subscribe the Youtube channel, read these posts on this blog and doing this things every week not only builds your confidence, build your success, build your skills, so you can always expanding so what you perceive, so you can always developing the window that you see the world with, the same way is the window you see your abilities through.

Limits are real until they are not.

Limitations are real until the moment they are not.

It is a limitation until it isn't.

Have a great week-end and lets go out and do something amazing.

Your friend, JM.

Evolution XII

Question your paradigms!

There are 2 parts in our mind: there is one part that gathers information and there is another part that controls our behavior, and it's our behavior that controls our results!

We have paradigms that are programmed genetically and environmentally. We must question if they are serving us! Why?

It's interesting how paradigms are formed and how we can change them. The paradigms controls our perception, how we utilize our time and controls the amount of money we earn.

For example of one paradigm that is universally accepted is that it's spiritual to be poor or noble to be poor or if we want to be spiritual we must be poor or if we want to be noble we must be poor.

The truth is that poverty almost the time causes people to lie, to cheat, to steal and even to kill.

If you born in poverty that's nothing wrong, but staying in poverty is an insult to the one that create you, because you are not utilizing the incredible potential that you have. When you are poor you are missing the mark for your creator.

When you are living in poverty you are missing the mark that your creator has to you or you are not accepting the love that the universe has to you because I really believe you were born to be happy, healthy and free.

Your creator gives you happiness, health and wealth and if you are not expressing that, you are turning away from that source, it's almost like being a sinner. We need now to define sin because you probably know that the Bible was written in Aramaic and in this original language the definition of sin means to miss the mark. So when you are sinning you are missing the mark that your creator has for you. And again we must differentiate be poor from born in poverty there are 2 things completely different like we already define above. 

But if for example my family or my close friends they really believe that being poor is noble and spiritual, what can I do?

The best way to deal with that and is not so easy to do, but it is limit your time with them, set boundaries for them, let them know you love them and care about them, you want to help them to reach success but you can't drag anyone to the finish line. They actually if you spend too much time with them they will do the opposite with you they will try to drag you to their side.

You need to let them know you don't allow anymore them to drag you again back to the other side. 

Probably you really need to say directly: "I'm sorry I love you, I care about you, I wish you the best but I cannot spend time with you any longer because I do not want to be infected with your attitude, your mindset, the way you are thinking."

In other hand expand the association with people that are in the same path like you for improving their lives!

 How? 

By reading books, listening to tapes, attending workshops, webinars, scopes on Periscope about personal development. 

Like always peace, love, faith, keep dreaming, stay alive, success, Just Do Life and have an amazing and great week.

Your friend and partner, JM. 

Evolution XI

Give life to your idea of being totally free!

You're not poor because you don't have money, you're poor if you don't have goals and a dream!

My definition of being free or have freedom isn't just going for the money and having material things but I'm not just focus even in being in the middle of the nature, and meditation, etc.

Is the combination of the two, being free is what brings joy and happiness to your life.

Also is what brings value to your life, the all picture of freedom is the money and material things, the health and wellness, powerful relationships, being happy, is the full-pack/include all of those things.

Why you should and how you can create goals?

It's very important goal setting, because when you have a goal there is a center in your brain working to achieve that goal, it's scientifically proven, that shows the veracity of this.

A lot of research was made in the 60s about how the human brain works and what they saw when you actually have a goal there is a center in your brain that works toward achieving that.

So make sure you have dreams, you have goals, this vision of you want to do, have or become. 

Children are very good in this when they are young, but adults are very good in killing this and we need to reverse this process. We got to nurture the dreams, because you have the right to decide how you want to live, to be free and choose your destiny.

But you can think this: how can I achieve my goals or my dream?

   

You don’t have to know how to do it. You just have to know two things—where you’re going and that you will get there.

You can also do two things: create an image of you living already your perfect life in your mind and the dialogue to support that image.

You’ve got to see yourself in the clothes you want to wear, having those cars, having that house, etc. Picture those things about you want to do, have or become. Build a clear image of you looking awesome and feeling fantastic.

You also must develop a new way of speaking to yourself and others. Otherwise, you will sabotage yourself with negative self-image dialogue.

Focus on what you want.

Write a description of your new life on a card— the look you want to be, the cars and house you want to have, the people you want in your life, and how you’ll look and feel. 

Read your card and affirmations several times a day. See yourself as already being looking, feeling and behaving in that new life. Get emotionally involved with these ideas.

Do these things and you will transform your life. Not by forcing yourself to do things you don’t want to do, but by building a new model in your marvelous mind.

This might seem overly simplistic, but the body is the instrument of the mind. When we build an image in our mind, our body HAS to express it. The transformation happens by law.

But for that could happen you need to be focused on that all days!

Focus each day on what you want to accomplish for the day, put the blinders on, if you find yourself distracted here or there in something isn't moving you close to you goals, stop it and focus specifically on the task that you need to accomplish for that day. Write down 1, 2, or 3 things each day that you want to get accomplish, and absolutely focus in order to be able make it happen.  

Give life to your idea of being that free person. I promise it will take on a power of its own.

So like always just Do life and have an amazing week.

- JM

Evolution X

YOU WERE MEANT TO LIVE A LIFE OF FREEDOM!

YOUR LIFE IS CREATED BY WHAT YOU THINK ABOUT ALL DAY!

You see all over the world there is people doing things they don't want to do and is giving them results they don't want to get and they do anyway. 

I want that your head represents your mind. First of all no one ever seen the mind. Mind is activity is not a thing. Your brain is not your mind. Brain is a electronic switching station that alters the vibration you're in and the vibration indicates what you attract. 

If you divide the top half of your head in the conscious mind and the bottom half represents the subconscious mind you will understand that the conscious mind is where school focus on, that is where we gather all the information loaded with books and the subconscious mind is where are the paradigms.

Your paradigms controls your vibration, controls what you attract and also controls what you do. It literally controls your behavior. If you look outside your results, your results are nothing but manifestation of your paradigms. And when you go and change your paradigms because it is something you must do if you want to change your results.  

But probably you are wondering what are paradigms?

Well paradigms are a multitude of habits. Are ideas that are fixed in your subconscious mind and all brought together are called paradigms. So paradigms are like a sub-electronic mechanism control system in your subconscious mind.   

What is this process that we see the world through? We see through a window and if it is open then we have freedom. 

Think about when you were a baby. You didn't have fear of speaking in front of people and didn't have afraid of failure. You try walk, you try touch in fire and get burned.

You grew up and then in the 30s you learn to be realistic. To set goals so you can achieve and don't fail or be disappointed. Now your window get closed. If you read TRANS4MATION it's up to you!

well your window expand and get bigger, starts to open again longer as you get older. Why? Because helps to you press the mute on the negative if you stay in this path of expanding your window that you use to you see the world.

Why this is so important?

Because your life is created by what you think about all day. For example if you think positive and success you create opportunities.

To you change anything outside you must first have to change the inside.

If you sow a thought you create a action and if you sow a action you create a habit and if you sow a habit you create character and if sow character you create your destiny.

Your mindsets are not created in a day but in a month cycle.

You create a better life by creating a better self-image.

If you REALLY believe you can achieve something and you act on it, YOU WILL.

Have a great week and just Do life!

- JM with friendship.

Evolution IX

OPEN YOUR MIND!

Most people avoid what they afraid of...

Your paradigms can keep you from succeeding and you have to find your fears.

Many people are afraid to fail or are embarrassed by their failures.

No one have a breakthrough in his or her own comfort zone and the big breakthroughs happen when those people faced their fears and take some risks.

Of course, I am not suggesting that you become irresponsible. Taking risks that are on purpose is quite different than being irresponsible.

Always keep in mind that losing is a part of winning. When you fall down, get up and keep moving forward. It’s by trying things that you figure out how far you can go.

You should be active when you see an opportunity because if not you will either step forward into growth or step back into safety and if you plan on being anything less than you are capable of being you will probably be unhappy all the days of your life.

You see even if you fail, if you treat every experience not like a failure but or either you won or it was a learning experience, then you’ll end up a winner.

So the stronger your discipline is the easy your life is.

You shouldn’t try to determine your purpose, you should discover it and when you discover your purpose that gives your life real meaning.

Then as long as you are true to your purpose, you should treat success and failure, no matter how big or small, exactly the same you learn from each one.

Not knowing what you want is so frustrating … or knowing what you want but not knowing how to get it is even more frustrating, and a sure recipe for failure and disappointment.

So surround yourself with people that challenge you and that don't allow you to stay where you are or in your comfort zone.

Associate with people that challenge you to improve your health, your wealth and your results.

How can you do that?

Attending workshops of personal-development, listen to tapes ( cd's, dvd's, youtube channels ), read blogs of self-development, books and the new hot sensation broadcasts on Periscope ( by the way if you are not following me there yet, it is @jbemartins ).

Like always please Just Do Life and have a great weekend.

- JM

Evolution VIII

It all starts and ends with you!

Awake for a new possibility...

Are you really living? You can create everything in your imagination of what you want for your life and the big news here is you can have it.

If you really want it, you desire it, if you willing to do the work that is need to make it happen then you can change your thinking, go against the adversities and you can have it.

Doesn't matter how old you are or how young you are, what sex you are, the color of your skin, what language you speak or if you had success or failure in your past, what really matters is what do you really want for your life?

I believe that we are exactly the same, we just look different, speak different, live in different places in our planet earth but the source of our power is the same and just one.

The only difference between a successful people and a person who is not, it is that successful people have habits that failures don't like to have.

You need to plan, do and review. Say it is the way this gonna happen and just do it in order to achieve that goal.

Did you ever thought why 3%, 4% or 5% of the population of our planet are earning all the money?

There is a formula for creating wealth?

Of course!

First of all I really believe that we must first and before of everything decide to become wealthy.

Like I wrote above please decide to be wealthy, healthy and happy. Decide to live well, decide to have nice houses, nice cars, nice clothes, nice watches, nice vacations in beautiful places all over our planet earth and having the time to enjoy those things with who you want most in your life.

For that can happen you must believe that you are worthy and you deserve all those things.

How do you create wealth?

It's by fixing and solving problems and creating or adding value.

Most of people say that all the people want money and if this saying was totally correct then most of people didn't spend money, they will keep it, and what we see happen when people receive their money from their employer? Of course they spend it or in another words people trade their money for something they want more than the money they have in their wallet. 

So by now the question we should be making is how can I fix or solve problems or how can I create and add value to the market place?

You can create a good income by doing one or both of the 2 ways we have available to create wealth but you can't be trap in the trading just your time for currency, because we all have just 24 hours a day, and we all need to do in each day at least have some meals and rest, etc so we must apply the concept of leverage.

Never forget that if you willing to give so you gracious receive.



Have a great weekend and like always just Do life!


- J. M.

Evolution VII

Get out your comfort zone!

Many of us are pretty comfortable in our lives!

       On a scale between 0 to 10 that 0 is none and 10 is completely fulfilled most people are in 4 ou 5 which is no man's land, they aren't really happy or unhappy to make a change or doing better.

We have a good reasonable income, the rent or the mortgage is being payed, there are food in the kitchen, we have a nice warm bed to sleep in, we have a car, nice clothes and all it seems to going fine. 

A person in that position could very easily think why should I do something to change this? 

The truth is if your life isn't going in one direction absolutely by law of physics it must be going in another direction. 

What many of us can easily make is establish a comfort zone in our lives.

This is a very common and understandable attitude because we all work hard to get where we are, and it may seem a good place to be.

The only problem with this, when you stop contributing, seeking and risking, that's when we stop growing, and without continues growth, we are now all we are ever going to be.

If you are in a comfort zone beware, the danger of a comfort zone is that doesn't hurt and it might feel good, many take that as a good place to be.

A comfort zone may be what is holding you back from real growth, real accomplishment and your potentially rewarding future. 

Again, remember if you are not going in one direction by physical law we must be going in another direction, we are building or we are imploding.

For example if a person says: "I like it just the way it is", again by physical law we know that absolutely nothing stays the way it is... 

What you don't use it you lose it!

What you don't increase, decreases!

So like always have a great week and Just Do Life!

- J. M.